Love your blog. I am a woman puzzled by modern day men and so have been reading red pill threads. I am 49, divorced for 10 years after brief marriage, and I had a good job, so no alimony as so many men feel victimized by understandably. I am so glad I went high school and college in the 1980s as I had a great experience dating. Men took initiative and were good guys. Now I am reading on these threads about spinning plates and ONS and that doesn’t strike me as having a lot of integrity in sexuality or relationships. Men seem to want it both ways – sex on demand with women they met an hour ago and as they put it with “zero to very low investment” on the man’s part. But they want her to be monogamous. And if it’s for marriage – a “clean cut” girl. They can’t have it both ways. I have had very few sex partners and have gone for long periods without sex, not always out of choice. I have never had a ONS. I am so particular for 1) health/physical reasons – unwanted pregnancy and STDs, 2) sex is a big deal to me – emotionally, physically. So guys show interest in me but don’t want to make the investment, so they move on to a woman who has sex immediately. Anyway, my point is they are passing up good women with this approach. Lastly, I am puzzled by why the single men whose threads I have read feel entitled to sex from a woman. And immediately. They are not. Anymore than a woman is entitled to their money.